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powers necessary to a successful diplomatist ; premising that , though the perfection may be unattainable , yet aim at its attainment is nevertheless indispensable . His following advice to the small diplomatists of our day , such as Lord Westmoreland , Stuart de

Uedcliffe , and others—indeed , we have no great ones— -ought to be framed and glazed for the special meditation of those worthies , equally as the sarcastic reflections of Swift upon the sacrifice of one ' s country to self-interest should be diligently perused by ministerial and episcopal jobbers in patronage and promotion . Our author thus speaks of the art of negotiating : —

'' Whatever be the line of policy an ambassador is directed to pursue , he should always endeavour to remain personally popular . He should thoroughly understand how to put a good face on a bad business . He should have a perfect command of temper and countenance . He should never allow a single personal feeling to interfere with his public duties . He must be careful to distinguish between the language and intentions of those with whom he treats . He will find that people very often talk themselves into a complying mood ; and even ministers are sometimes more anxious to be heard and admired for new and brilliant theories than

desirous to enforce them . It is as well to give people credit for honesty of purpose if you wish them really to show it ; for if we evince a vulgar disposition to suspect evil , our irritated adversaries will feel less scruple in verifying our suspicions . On the other hand , a wholesome vanity renders men desirous of proving themselves worthy of our good opinion . A negotiator should not only be a sound and logical reasoner , but also a pleasant and a graceful one . His dissent should never carry a sting with it . He should be invulnerable to the very weapons he uses against others , and never suffer himself to be talked away from his point .

He should be especially careful of suggesting objections for the purpose of refuting them , as such are sometimes eagerly caught at when the argument against him had been otherwise exhausted . This is giving ammunition to the enemy . Facts and logic from pleasant lips—these should be his strongest weapons . People cannot and should not be wheedled out of improper concessions . Unhappily , however , public men as well as private ones are led more by their interests and passions than by their reason , so that a keen insight into human nature will always be necessary to the success of a negotiator in the best sense of the word .

" Perhaps one of the most -finished arts of negotiation is to endeavour to instil our ideas drop by drop with happy carelessness into the minds of others , and get them to adopt our views unconsciously . A man will always give what he fancies are his own opinions a warmer welcome than those of other people . Many persons also shrink from a new idea when introduced to them too abruptly ; and a man once startled in this way is not easily dealt with afterwards . Ci

One of the first qualifications for success is to have a clear practical idea of the point to be obtained . It is as well , then , to remember that people are not to he moved by any advantages or disadvantages to you , but that they will have a marvellously quick ear for their own . If you can once convince any people that what you desire is really for their benefit , you will have small difficulty in carrying your point . Now those things which are right in themselves are always most for the true interests of all parties concerned . Success or failure in a good cause .

therefore , solely , wholly , and absolutely depends on the abilities of the negotiator . It is the fault undoubtedly ; and it is the disgrace of any diplomatist who fails in a mission with justice on his side . u ! this Russian business , what a weary and shameful series of blunders it

has been J If one man employed had understood his duty , this war would have been impossible . Such a statement as this may smack of presumption , perhaps of impertinence ; but it is true , and , by the living God , I know it ! I have watched that dreadful game played out by hands bo nerveless , and with lips so pale yet rash , that I have shuddered with impatience and disgust . Any man indeed who

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THE SIGNS OF ENGLAND. Article 16
GERMANY. Article 55
THE MACHINERY OF SOCIAL LIFE; Article 6
TRAVELS BY A FREEMASON. (Concluded from page 684.) Article 10
COLOURED LODGES IN AMERICA. Article 13
THE FREEMASONS MONTHLY MAGAZINE AND THE MASONIC MIRROR. Article 1
MASONIC SONGS.-No. 5 Article 20
AUTUMN. Article 20
REVIEWS OF NEW BOOKS. Article 21
CORRESPONDENCE. Article 29
MUSIC. Article 28
NOTES AND QUERIES. Article 32
MASONIC INTELLIGENCE. Article 33
METROPOLITAN Article 34
PROVINCIAL. Article 37
THE EDITOR OF THE MASONIC MIRROR TO THE CRAFT. Article 3
FRANCE. Article 52
SCOTLAND. Article 51
COLONIAL. Article 54
THE ANCIENT AND ACCEPTED RITE Article 56
Obituary Article 56
NOTICES TO CORRESPONDENTS. Article 56
SEVERANCE OF THE CANADIAN LODGES FROM THE GRAND LODGE OF ENGLAND. Article 5
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powers necessary to a successful diplomatist ; premising that , though the perfection may be unattainable , yet aim at its attainment is nevertheless indispensable . His following advice to the small diplomatists of our day , such as Lord Westmoreland , Stuart de

Uedcliffe , and others—indeed , we have no great ones— -ought to be framed and glazed for the special meditation of those worthies , equally as the sarcastic reflections of Swift upon the sacrifice of one ' s country to self-interest should be diligently perused by ministerial and episcopal jobbers in patronage and promotion . Our author thus speaks of the art of negotiating : —

'' Whatever be the line of policy an ambassador is directed to pursue , he should always endeavour to remain personally popular . He should thoroughly understand how to put a good face on a bad business . He should have a perfect command of temper and countenance . He should never allow a single personal feeling to interfere with his public duties . He must be careful to distinguish between the language and intentions of those with whom he treats . He will find that people very often talk themselves into a complying mood ; and even ministers are sometimes more anxious to be heard and admired for new and brilliant theories than

desirous to enforce them . It is as well to give people credit for honesty of purpose if you wish them really to show it ; for if we evince a vulgar disposition to suspect evil , our irritated adversaries will feel less scruple in verifying our suspicions . On the other hand , a wholesome vanity renders men desirous of proving themselves worthy of our good opinion . A negotiator should not only be a sound and logical reasoner , but also a pleasant and a graceful one . His dissent should never carry a sting with it . He should be invulnerable to the very weapons he uses against others , and never suffer himself to be talked away from his point .

He should be especially careful of suggesting objections for the purpose of refuting them , as such are sometimes eagerly caught at when the argument against him had been otherwise exhausted . This is giving ammunition to the enemy . Facts and logic from pleasant lips—these should be his strongest weapons . People cannot and should not be wheedled out of improper concessions . Unhappily , however , public men as well as private ones are led more by their interests and passions than by their reason , so that a keen insight into human nature will always be necessary to the success of a negotiator in the best sense of the word .

" Perhaps one of the most -finished arts of negotiation is to endeavour to instil our ideas drop by drop with happy carelessness into the minds of others , and get them to adopt our views unconsciously . A man will always give what he fancies are his own opinions a warmer welcome than those of other people . Many persons also shrink from a new idea when introduced to them too abruptly ; and a man once startled in this way is not easily dealt with afterwards . Ci

One of the first qualifications for success is to have a clear practical idea of the point to be obtained . It is as well , then , to remember that people are not to he moved by any advantages or disadvantages to you , but that they will have a marvellously quick ear for their own . If you can once convince any people that what you desire is really for their benefit , you will have small difficulty in carrying your point . Now those things which are right in themselves are always most for the true interests of all parties concerned . Success or failure in a good cause .

therefore , solely , wholly , and absolutely depends on the abilities of the negotiator . It is the fault undoubtedly ; and it is the disgrace of any diplomatist who fails in a mission with justice on his side . u ! this Russian business , what a weary and shameful series of blunders it

has been J If one man employed had understood his duty , this war would have been impossible . Such a statement as this may smack of presumption , perhaps of impertinence ; but it is true , and , by the living God , I know it ! I have watched that dreadful game played out by hands bo nerveless , and with lips so pale yet rash , that I have shuddered with impatience and disgust . Any man indeed who

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